to brinyou up oospeedsinceaug12016 I was in the hospital recovering from a stroke the only thing on my mind was spending time with Ajani now she did bring him to see me while I was in when i was discharged I was looking forward to spending father’s day with my son well I was informed that was not going to happen while I was IN recovery she went and had the custody order changed to benefit her now I have no time with him
My warning meant nothing You’re dancing in quicksand Why don’t you watch where you’re wandering? Why don’t you watch where you’re stumbling? You’re wading knee deep and going in You’re wading knee deep and going in
This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker I hope it sucks you down Down, down, down, down
My warning meant nothing You’re dancing in quicksand Why don’t you watch where you’re wandering? Why don’t you watch where you’re stumbling? You’re wading knee deep and going in And you may never come back again
This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker I hope it sucks you down
My warning meant nothing You’re dancing in quicksand Why don’t you watch where you’re wandering? Why don’t you watch where you’re stumbling? You’re wading knee deep and going in And you may never come back again
This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker This bog is thick and easy to get lost in When you’re a stupid, dumb ass, belligerent fucker I hope it sucks, I hope it suck, I hope it suck You fucker I hope it sucks, I hope it suck, I hope it suck down
Wandering around got you in No one even invited you And you still stumble and suffocate, suffocate Why don’t you get out while you can?
Wandering around got you in No one even invited you And you still stumble and suffocate, suffocate Why don’t you get out while you can?
No one told you to care My warning meant nothing You’re dancing in quicksand Why don’t you watch where you’re wandering? Why don’t you watch where you’re stumbling? You’re wading knee deep and going in And you may never come back again
This bog is thick and easy to get lost in ‘Cause you’re a stupid, belligerent fucker This bog is thick and easy to get lost in ‘Cause you’re a dumbass, belligerent fucker
I hope it sucks I hope it sucks I hope it sucks you fucker I hope it sucks I hope it sucks I hope it sucks you
After our usual greeting he wanted to go straight to his uncles house, no movies, I wanted to see Iron Man. He didn’t want to eat just, he just wanted to leave. While we were on the train he was playing with my phone sitting next to a woman. She commented on his eyelashes,”I would kill someone for those eyelashes”. Ajani was playing a new game that he found on my phone “Aces of the Luftwaffe” I was pointing out pointers on how to play the game, he was all ” I got it” and he was doing pretty good. He was playing the game so well and enjoying his self, she whipped out her phone, downloaded the game and stated playing. He looked at her phone and said” Daddy she ‘s playing the same game” So together they were shooting down planes until she got off.
After breakfast he saw a Skylanders Giants poster and the toys r us. Daddy Skylanders!! he keep repeating. I then went in to spoiled brat mode. ” I don’t want to go to the store I want to go out side” and stated stomping my feet. He grabbed my hand and lead me into the store. He now has Trigger Happy and Gill Grunt. I suspect that he will have them all pretty soon.
Arriving at his uncles house he was greeted with the usual ” hi Ajani” and hugs and kisses. Mark was telling me about the award the Patricia won for her drawing of Ajani. A government sponsored are contest and She got third over all First in PA. This picture was hanging in Washington
Boy Lilikio
He saw the pic and said daddy I don’t like owls. I then explained that owls represent wisdom and intelligence. Daddy I like Owls was his next sentence. He was showing everyone his new toy, when the question came up, what his name. So his cousin searched and found his name and a online game. They played that for a while and hopped on Mario Kart and Mario Baseball. He is improving on both. On the last visit, one of his cousins was teaching him a word/hand game Ricky Ticky something with some hand movement. Now she showed three times on the last visit and he basically got it down. This week she asked him to repeat it. She started to do it and after the first three words he picked it right up going through the arm motions and the words. At one point he paused, you could see the wheels spinning as he was gathering up his thoughts.
Back at my place he wanted to play the Skylander game so I set him up on my laptop. and we found the site. There is a Tetris type game and he started playing it he played for a couple of hours. I was running around the house.I had stopped to talk to my roommate and I heard “DADDY DADDY” in a scream. Oh what the hell happened! i ran upstairs he was jumping up and down. “I won I won I won” he keep saying and sure enough he beat the game. The next morning
SSDD
She was told not to have both of them come to the drop off. That it creates a hostile environment. Well the other one got out the car and walked in to the police station. messed up yea
Reality pt2
No evidence, no witness, no nothing just a lie upon lie.
Jul 27, 2012 – Judge Peter Rogers is facing a complaint filed with the Judiciary Review Board by the Philadelphia Fraternal Order of Police for “inappropriate …
Judge Peter Rogers is a travesty to the Judicial System in this Country my experience with him is he was either Drunk or loaded he paid no attention to the case …
Yes its been awhile since I’ve posted and there has been some changes. First off I have Ajani on some over nights. The first morning he spent with me, I came up from starting breakfast. He was asleep and place my hand on his chest, he just smiled. That’s a keeper! The visits are wonderful we spend Sat night watching movies (the lorax ,chicken run or chicken little) and eating popcorn and lemonade.
For a while there things were happening. A friend who I was working for passed suddenly. New and better employment and the weight of something keep me in a funk. I was thrilled to start the over night but i did not feel completed.
There were some incidents that I wanted to bring up at the court hearing that was started by her. She filed a contempt charge on me for not picking Ajani up when he had the chicken pox. Needless to say that when that was brought up the judge was already pissed. Any thing that I had was of no concern to her.
REALITY: NO FAMILY IN FAMILY COURT
The site came up this time, yep the one your reading. The main focus was on the page ATTACK ON THE FAMILY. I was given a lecture on my “homophobic beliefs” READ THE DISCLAIMER, guess there there’s too much scat in there already.
Basically frustration is over come and reality has set in.
Tired of the courts they don’t care.
Reality is that my son will be living in two households and will not experience his birthright.
Reality is that some people are just that selfish.
Karma is reality
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Well you can tell ev’ryone I’m a down disgrace
Drag my name all over the place.
I don’t care anymore.
You can tell ev’rybody ’bout the state I’m in
You won’t catch me crying ‘cos I just can’t win.
I don’t care anymore I don’t care anymore
One day all the parts of the body had a meeting. The subject was who was going to be in-charge. The brain spoke first. “Without me, this body would not know what to do”.
Next were the lungs. “I think I should be in charge, without me this body would surely die.”
Then the heart, “I pump the blood through this body, I must be in charge”
This discussion turned into a heated argument with all the body parts claiming that their function was the most important, and that they should be in charge.
A tiny voice could be heard through the commotion. “I would like to be in charge”
“WHO ARE YOU” everyone asked.
“I’m the asshole”
There was a roar of laughter.
“You want to be in charge? The asshole wants to be in charge? You got to be kidding.
Why do you want to be in charge? All you do is let the waste that we create out of the body.
“No particular reason just thought I’d give it a shot.”
“We will never let an asshole be in charge” the body shouted.
“No problem” said the asshole
The body went back to its argument, the asshole closed up.
Now because the asshole was not doing its job, the body started to get sick.
The brain could not think. The heart started slowing pumping blood and the lungs could hardly take a breath.
The body pleaded for the asshole to do its job.
The asshole asked one question.
“Can I be in charge?”
Without hesitation the body said yes!!
So the asshole did its job, the body began to get better. Next time you call someone an asshole remember who’s in charge
With that being said, the past couple of week have been great with Ajani. There was a post about father’s day, but there was a server upgrade and that post was lost. Although there are a few issues that I’m going to bring up. There is an ongoing pattern that I have take notice to, Ajani’s sleeping. He seems to take a nap usually around 10 am and sleeps for about 2 hrs. Now I don’t think that’s a normal for an active 3 yr old. Now when he wakes up, he is full of energy then he crashes. I have a problem with that. Second my son tells me that when he comes home from school, all he does is watch TV. No outside and no one to play with him. Now as a concerned parent I went to DHS to voice my feelings on a few other items, that was about 3 weeks ago, still nothing from them, not even a your full of shit. I guess the only way to get some type of response out of that origination is for me to grow some tits.
Court on the 26th
The other major item was the court date to have the PFA extended. This was the 3rd scheduling of this. I was prepared. We walked in to the court room, once again no attorney. The judge reviewed the case history. She then read the stature for having a PFA extended “The judge can extend a final PFA if s/he believes that the abuser committed one or more acts of abuse while you had the final order or behaved in other ways that indicates a continued risk of harm to the you or your child. If necessary, the order can be extended more than once. There is no limit on the number of extensions that may be granted”* 23 Pa.C.S.A. § 6108(e)”
Since I knew that I had not done anything in the past 3 years this was an open and shut case. I proceeded to get my papers in order. Then opening statements, she opened up with the same rhetoric “Freddie B Thomas has found ways to get around the PFA, he uses the fact that we have a son to contact me, and that I fear from my life and my sons life if the PFA is not extended”. Just Like they practiced. Then my turn, “with the testimony and evidence that I will present, you will deny and request that Roslyn Hopson has presented to extend the PFA.”
Now on with the show!
She then started to talk about a text that I had sent to her phone on Feb 19th. Here is the text “ajani ate 2 chicken strips acouple handfuls of low salt potato chips 10oz of choclet milk”
Vlad
The judge then asked her to produce the text. I had my copies printed out. The judge mentioned that there was a full docket and that “you” Ms Hopson have a witness to testify also, still scrolling through the phones. Now you figured that a person with such a “high degree” of intelligence would be prepared and better yet know how to work a cell phone. Hell, when Ajani wants Angry Birds, all I do is put in my code and hand him my phone and within a few mins I’m hearing the sounds of birds flying in the air. It took all of about 30 mins searching through two phones for that text. One of the court officers was checking her Facebook page, me and the other exchanging stares and chuckles and the judge was knocking off cases. Finally she found it. All I did was confirm that it was the text. The judge asked her to read the text. She read that one plus 6 more; all the judge wanted was just the one for the 19th. Her mother was the witness; the judge was already fed up and asked her just one question. “Have you witness and type of abuse from Mr Thomas against ms hopson in the past three years. The only thing she could say was no which is what she said. Then the judge added, “Probably because she does not show up”
Now my turn.
I proceeded to address each complaint; I said that there is a court order in place that specifies that we are to exchange information about Ajani via electronic means and produced said order. She acknowledged that. I then began to explain how I came about her phone number. I stated that I have a website up about my “trials “over the past three years and that I received noticed that her name came up in a keyword search on the site. I followed the links and it leads me to her phone number. The court officer then handed the papers to the judge, she then handed them to Roslyn. I had to explain how keywords work to the judge.
Now we’ve all seen those priceless commercials from master card. This was one of them. As she flipped thought the papers, her jaw fell out of her mouth, rolled up said hi to the judge and made a trip around the whole family court. She was ABSOLUTLY SPEACHLESS (and that’s how I like to leave them) The PFA will expire on the 7th of July.
The Judge then thanked me for being prepared and we left. (thanks mom and dad for the Boy Scouts!)
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Somewhere between an excuse and a lie
You found something that you believe
So proud, I guess I can’t imagine why
Three cheers, for what we used to be
Pathetic, Wasted, Souless, Compromised
Sleep-walking the mine field
Shit talking, it crumbles around you
It comes back around
Somewhere between delusion and denial
You’ll drown in your own sympathy
Profound, at least you thought so at the time
A ghost of who you used to be
Pathetic, Wasted, Souless, Compromised
Sleep-walking the mine field
Shit talking, it crumbles around you
It comes back around
Sunday July 1
As for the incident at the police station, to both of you “THINGS”, you really think by recording every pick up help your cause??? Boy you are really fuckin stupid! Don’t you realize that by not letting Roslyn make the pick/drop off she is creating a hostile environment? That she is the one to take the fall?? Or that’s part of your selfish plans?? Make her take the fall then you two walk away with Ajani?? Hate to tell ya NEVER GONNA HAPPEN!!!
Now about the comments that were said first on the job thing. Right now my job is to be a father to my son and to protect him, and also to thwart any of your plans.
On me being Ajani’s Father, which was the dumbest thing, you could say now that changes the playing field. If it comes out that I am not the father, it’s Christmas all over the world.
So am I an ASSHOLE for fighting for what I believe in?
Am I an ASSHOLE for wanting my family?
Am I an ASSHOLE for not doing what everyman has done in their lives, that is walk away?
And to answer the question that the police officer from the 19th district “IS that an ASSHOLE”
That’s right and for two reasons first: I got to spend time with my son. Second: very good day in court on Monday. I did not make a post about that, still stunned. I’ll talk about it later on in this post.
With a great big hug we greeted each other. Right off the bat he asked “do you have a surprise for me”? I said not today! But I have good news; soon we are going to spend more time together. So we set off to his uncle’s house. On the train ride he asked for the Thomas game. After setting it up, he jumped right into the matching game. After about 3 rounds of that he wanted to go to puzzles. He started on level 3 and did not have a problem. He did about 7 of those so we moved on to insects, birds, and shapes. While we were doing shapes, it got interesting. I showed him a rectangle I asked “what’s this shape” he said rhombus. I got to thinking I’ve heard of that before. I corrected him on the rectangle.
Arriving at my brothers, he was greeted with the usual hugs and kisses. While we were playing his cousin Patricia had something to show us and this was it.
“Oh the things u will see”
I was amazed; I knew she was a good artist. But this was just damn good. I showed Ajani and I asked him who is that? He said AJANI. He then asked “what am I looking at”. Patricia said “space” so the rest of the day was spend with him saying “daddy I’m looking in to space” We had lunch and played horsey and some Mario Go Kart. When it was time to leave, once again we went through it. He fell asleep on the train
Feb 13th
I was nervous because with the last hearing. Things did not well at all (post: not in Kansas). I arrived at 9 am. She arrived 9:30. There was no attorney for her so I guess the money ran out. Also here two shadows were mot there either. ODD! Things are looking up! I made a statement that I did not get any visits for the last 3 weeks. I then told the judge about the call from DHS. Then I gave the judge a letter from said agency, silence. The judge read the letter out loud. Then proceeded to ask her question that eventually lead to her being caught up in 1 lie. She was caught in another one also about the 24th of Dec.
She was found guilty of contempt of the custody order and Ms Hopson was advised that continual violations of the custody order will result to incarceration. The Judge also advised me that I WILL be getting more time with my son Saturdays with an overnight into Sunday. And eventually I will get weekends. As for the outburst and award winning performance by Roslyn Hopson here’s a little something for ya
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The judge did say something that got my interest. I should put you two in a room by your selves and hash it out. Now the only reason a judge would say something like that is: THERE IS NO LEGAL REASON FOR THIS, which is something I WANT TO DO!! But there are two underlying factors in all this:
Constance Ratliff Mother???? of Roslyn CR Alternative Lifestyle
Those two words felt so goddamn good, the look on their faces was priceless. First I would like to thank the judge who could see through her bull shit. Second the Public Defenders Association, good job. And last but not least, the person who took her statement on July 7th. WORD for WORD. That’s doing your job. For the first time, in this matter, the court system did something right.
I arrived about 8:50 read the Metro and waited. 9:20 I heard some keys rattling, It was her. She walked in, the transformation is almost complete. She walked up to the Prosecutors’ table. Laughing and looking all confident. Then the air got a little chilly, the low rattle of timpani drums began and the floor trembled, Creature 1 entered. Followed by its shadow, all light disappeared as it was absorbed by the growing black hole that is it becoming.
The trial stated at 12:45, she testified first. Key point, the police report was filed on July 7th. Incident happened on July 3rd. Once again it’s an after thought (Jan 26 2009). Also when asked how she felt when she received the text, “I was scared”. Now here’s where a person is earning their paycheck. In her statement she stated that “under the advisement of her attorney, that she file a contempt charge for the text.”
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then I remembered that I still had a copy of the order in my wallet. Showed it to my attorney she read it made copies passed it out. Then it was my turn:
On July 3rd CR dropped off Ajani at 9:30
On the pickup DM arrived. I pointed her to the window. She walked over and the officer on duty informed her that since she was not on the court order, I did not have to give Ajani to her. We left I then texted her and CR. I was then asked to read a part of the order
“Mother or maternal Grandmother to drop off and pick up child. Parties to communicate by e-mail any necessary information pertaining to the child.”
Defense Rest.
Took the Judge about 15mins,
“Mr. Thomas I find you not guilty of contempt, you were in your rights to contact Roslyn Hopson about this matter.”
I spent 18hrs in jail, denied a visit with my son.
There were a couple of hearings that really show the bias in the family court system. At the contempt hearing, I was told that the evidence that i had should be show to someone who cares. That it is OK for her not to give me information about Ajain according to the court order. The overall impression was the courts were more interested in me showing up 15 mins late than the condition that my son is given to me.
So taking the courts advice, I continued to document and take pictures. On too round two!
This was the hearing about who can do the pick up and drop off and my petition for joint custody and a few other items. Surely this would be the court that would care about my evidence!
Right off the bat I was asked why do I object to diane mitchel picking up my son.
I said ” I do not need to see the people who are the architects of this conspiracy to commit parental alienation, I don’t like her, I don’t want her around my son, Roslyn needs to start being a mother and bring our son to me”
“you don’t like her, I don’t care who you like, the wicked witch of the west can come and pick up your son and your are not to say anything” you don’t like her
I was thinking there is a fire station right next store and other things.
thanks PFD!
Then we moved on to other things,actually I was DONE! because with that statement it said that the courts do not care who drops my son off. That the courts are in NO WAY interested in preserving the idea of a family. That the best interest of children are NOT the first thing on it’s minds. That a court order can be interpreted in anyway except the way it was written.
I then wanted to introduce my evidence. I would’ve had better luck serving a cheese steak to a vegan.
The total lack of interest in anything I had to say or present really is a major let down in my belief in a fair justice system. But then I remember that this is not justice or a system, it is a process. Just like making ground beef. They haven’t made major changes to that process, except they kill them with some dignity.
Headin' to Philly!
THE EVIDENCE OF CONTEMPT
I presented the pictures that I took of my son. The reason is simple,CYA. If you remember around April of last year, I did not see Ajain for 9 weeks. The reason for that was they said I injured him on a visit. That hearing was in July. The picture they presented was printed on plain paper, and you could see the pixels, (don’t know much ’bout photo editing) and, needless to say was dismissed. So I had to CMA .
Plus I had a spread sheet of the number of violations and the fact that I recivied no information on Ajani’s medical, NOTHING.
ALL WAS DISMISSED!
Wow! and we thought we've seen and heard everything!
At least the vegan would have asked for some lettuce, or some other veggie stuff.
Now there was another issue that I wanted to bring up, but after that why bother.
The issue was this, since I have not received any information on my son, i.e allergies of any kind, what foods not to give him, skin NOTHNG! You would think Roslyn would provide a bag? I have Ajani for 8 hrs.
This is a letter given to the day room supervisor during the supervisied visits.
I only had him for 1 hr 40 mins (they were never on time). Reason would dictate that with a letter like that, someone would provide something for 8 hrs?
What’s that? some salt and napkins?????
Now I was denied my son for 9 weeks, not by a decision made by the courts, but by them. NO CALL NO MESSAGE. But yet I have all the evidence of non compliance,of willful contempt, of blatant attempts to alienate me from my son ?
And it’s dismissed. No wonder why men just give up.
